Email: bud@whetselfuneralservice.com

Bud has been a long time resident of Alexandria and a licensed funeral director for over 35 years. He has dedicated himself to serving others in their greatest time of need. 

A native of Madison County, he has been active in many community and civic organizations. Bud has served as a past president of the Alexandria Service Club and the Independent Funeral Directors of Indiana. He is currently a member of the Alexandria Service Club, Independent Funeral Directors of Indiana, Indiana Funeral Directors Association, Alexandria Elks Lodge, Alexandria Lodge #235, F&AM, and Glad Tidings Assembly of God Church. 

Bud frequently serves as a guest lecturer and commencement speaker at numerous funeral service colleges and related groups. Bud is married to Susan R. (Hueston) Whetsel and is the father of four children.

Email: susan@whetselfuneralservice.com

Susan, the daughter of Larry and Sue Hueston, is a native of Madison County and a lifetime resident of Alexandria. She graduated from Alexandria Monroe High School in 1980 and Apex Beauty School of Cosmetology in 1981 and has been a licensed cosmetologist for over 30 years. 

Susan currently serves as the office coordinator for Whetsel Funeral Service as well as a family service caregiver. She is passionate about helping others, often volunteers with local community groups, and is a member of Glad Tidings Assembly of God Church. Susan is married to Bud Whetsel, and the two have four children. 

Wendy is a native of Madison County and a graduate of Madison Grant High School. Before retiring, she worked as the Client Services Branch Manager at Mainsource Bank. 

Wendy now works at the funeral home and welcomes the opportunity to assist you with all of your pre-need funeral arrangements. She can also assist in Funeral Trust Transfers from any other funeral home.

A 30-year resident of Alexandria, Wendy is a former board member and secretary of the Alexandria Chamber, and she attends Connection Pointe Apostolic Church in Anderson. 

Wendy is married to Alexandria Native David Montgomery, and they have 2 children, Clint and Victoria, and 3 grandchildren: Braylon, Aaron, and Lily. 

Joseph Brown brings more than 20 years of experience in funeral service, guided by a genuine passion for caring for families during life’s most difficult moments. Throughout his career, Joseph has served in a wide range of roles, including Associate, Lead Associate, Director of Operations, Director of Business Development, Funeral Home Social Media Consultant, and in casket sales. Each position has deepened his understanding of funeral service and strengthened his commitment to serving families with compassion, integrity, and respect.

Joseph believes funeral service is more than a profession, it is a calling. He finds purpose in walking alongside families, offering guidance, reassurance, and care when it is needed most.

Joseph has been married to his wife, Katelyn, since 2006, and together they have three children. In 2020, their family made their home on a small hobby farm where they enjoy a slower pace of life and time together.

Faith and community service are central to Joseph’s life. He has served in various ministry roles since 2005 and currently serves alongside his wife as Student Pastors at Greater Life Church, a role they have held since 2020. Joseph has also served on several community boards, reflecting his dedication to giving back and staying actively involved in the communities he serves.

Outside of work, Joseph and his family enjoy camping, traveling, and spending time together, especially visiting the Smoky Mountains and experiencing old-school Disney favorites, including trips to Walt Disney World.

Dolly came into our lives as a quiet blessing, and from the very beginning, her heart for comfort has been evident.

She was originally welcomed into a family during a season of deep loss, given as a gift of love and companionship when comfort was needed most. As life continued to unfold and circumstances changed, Dolly found her way to us and we are incredibly grateful she did.

Today, Dolly is a cherished part of the Whetsel Funeral Service family. She is currently in training to become a certified therapy dog, but those who have met her would agree, she already has a natural gift for bringing calm, connection, and comfort to those around her. With her gentle presence, warm eyes, and affectionate spirit, Dolly has quickly become a favorite among our staff, families, and extended community.

Whether she’s offering a quiet moment of companionship, greeting visitors with a wagging tail, or simply sitting nearby, Dolly reminds us that healing often comes through presence and sometimes, through four gentle paws.

We are honored to have Dolly alongside us as we continue our mission of comforting souls, inspiring trust, and healing hearts.

Steve currently is serving as a funeral assistant, he is retired from the Alexandria Fire Dept where had served as  the Assistant Fire Chief .  He is also a member of the Alexandria Service Club and Bethany Christian Church. Steve and his wife, Jennifer, are the parents of three children.

Mary, a lifelong resident of Alexandria, is wife to Tom Mottweiler and a mother of two with several grandchildren. She is a faithful member of Cornerstone Community Church and a compassionate and giving person. We are very pleased to have her on staff with us.

Tom, a lifelong resident of Alexandria, has been a member of the Whetsel Funeral Service staff for over 12 years. He is a member of the Cornerstone Community Church and is active in many of the church's ministries. He is also a member of Alexander Bright Post 87 of the American Legion. 

Tom is married to Mary (Savage) Mottweiller. They have two children and five grandchildren.

Norman was a member of the Whetsel Funeral Service staff for over 17 years. He is greatly missed by all of us.